DO’S AND DON’TS OF SOCIAL MEDIA Pt 1
Social media has radically altered the cultural landscape. As ministry wives, we have an unparalleled opportunity …
Resources for Planter Wives
Fight to Remember Your Purpose
The day after I deep clean has historically been a very rough one. I cringe (on …
The Lonely Pastor and His Wife
How can someone who is almost never alone be lonely? Unfortunately, no one prepared me for …
{A Note from Kathy Ferguson Litton, National Consultant for Ministry to Pastor’s Wives, Flourish.me: The tragedy …
When Clay Holcomb moved to Portland, Oregon to start a church, he knew he’d probably be …
“I’m seeing someone else.” I spoke the words with a tremble in my voice. I didn’t …
Editor’s Note: (Pastor Joe Thorn recently posted a blog that needs to serve as a reminder today …
Educating Our Kids: Exploring the Options
{A Note from Kathy Ferguson Litton, National Consultant for Ministry to Pastor’s Wives, Flourish.me: My friend …
The Truth About Pain in Childbearing
Facebook has ramped the first day of school up several notches since my kids were in …
In her blog, Mothering While Churching, Christine Hoover shares personal realities of Church Planting Wives such …
I gathered with a group of women who were grieving for a friend who just had …
Seven Inescapable Choices Pastor’s Wives Face
We are not haplessly at the mercy of our emotions or our circumstances. We have choices. …
Eight Books That Have Shaped Me as a Leader
Leadership is often an uncomfortable topic for ministry wives. As I have interacted with hundreds of …
It feels annoyingly like the same pattern I’ve been in before. You’ve experienced it, too. Repeatedly. …
Seven Inescapable Realities of Being A Pastor’s Wife
1. Not everyone is going to like you. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be …
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A Perspective on Spiritual Disciplines
It was September, 1983. I accepted Christ as a young single adult. In my quest to …
What Everyday Life Says About Us (Part 2)
Everyday life provides the battlefields on which our character (see Character… What Everyday Life Says About Us …
What Everyday Life Says About Us
Why character? Because people watch leaders. Some of you hate that notion. They watch not only …
When the Fear of Failure Paralyzes You
As a bit of a perfectionist, I have a tendency to shy away from commitments or …
Six Things Your Love Does for Your Wife
(Or even better title might be “6 Free Mother’s Day Gifts for your Wife.” That might …
Speak the Gospel. Use Deeds When Necessary.
We’ve bought the line, “Preach the gospel at all times; when necessary, use words.”
[This quote …
In my last blog post, I encouraged all of us ministry wives to be a strong …
The Most Taboo Conversation in the Church
The other day it struck me. Don’t get too excited. Most of you will either furrow …
The Benefits of Being Interested
Deep down we may wrestle thinking that we need to seem interesting, fascinating or charming in …
I often find myself privy to the secrets of a woman’s heart. Simply because I am …
I Thought Ministry Would Be Glamorous
As early as high school, I had a sense that I might one day be a …
When Your Decisions Affect Your Kids
Decisions were easier when I didn’t have children. Now my decisions affect small people tethered to …
Seven Lessons I Wish I’d Known Earlier
We sat in the car together, my mom and I, with the ignition turned off, and …
My friend looked at me and said flatly, “My husband has a mistress.” For a split …
How to Raise Counterculture Kids
“Mom, who do I believe, Erick or you?” “You believe me. I’m going to always tell …
The Equation of God’s Goodness
If God could write a sticky note reminder to me right now it would read: I …
The Delusions of Church Planters
My husband and I were speaking with a group of church planters and their wives recently …
Four Conversations to Have with Your Husband
Life is a chaotic enterprise, especially if we determine in our hearts that we will not …
Five Things I Would Tell My Younger Self
When my husband and I accepted our first paid position in ministry work, we were filled …
I’m Tempted to Think My Husband is the Enemy
Now, I realize there’s a danger of blame shifting here. I don’t want to sound entirely …
What PK’s Want Their Parents to Know
We asked our adult Preacher Kids to think back to their feelings growing up in the …
Life as a pastor’s wife can certainly be lonely. We know many people, but we are …
I Think We May Be Missing Something Very Important
{Editor’s Note: This post originally appeared here and is used by permission from the “We are THAT family…you …
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A funny thing happened to me on the way to Easter several years ago . . …
Confessions of a Jealous Pastor’s Wife
Walking into the worship center, I saw her. She was standing front and center singing like …
I’m Under 24-Hour Surveillance and That’s a Good Thing
Surveillance. Is that a bit dramatic? No. During recent spin class I introduced myself to a …
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Influence: You’ve Got it Online
As ministry wives, you and I have influence: on our own thought lives, our husbands, our …
Today I called my friend who just happens to be a pastor’s wife. “How are ya?” …
Ministry Wife, You are Not Alone
And, let me tell you, these are some tough women. They have faced relocations, chronic …
Six Things My Love Does for My Husband
What is the best thing you can do for your husband? Love him. Love him. Love …
Rescuing Date Night from the Fishbowl
It was 6:30 on a Thursday night. My Hubby’s sermon for Sunday was hurdling through cyber …
As a way to show him love, I’m giving him the city this year. Our city …
Three Sacrifices When Serving in a Dangerous Place
In 2009 my husband and I planted August Gate Church in the urban core of St. …
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In a city where the mountains are king, some people say Jesus is ignorable. But in …
Five Great Questions to Deepen Small Talk
Small talk—the very words paralyzes some. Others have mastered it. Meeting new faces and striking up …
Mean Girls: Pastor’s Wives’ Edition (Part 2)
In ministry, sometimes wounds are inflicted upon us. They come from both inside and outside the …
Mean Girls: Pastor’s Wives’ Edition
There is a dream that dies when we are wounded by another pastor’s wife. Let’s face …
Five Ways to Teach Your Children to Hate the Ministry
Author Ed Stetzer answers questions on how and why pastors’ kids are prone to hate the …
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I Told Him What I Really Thought
My husband had turned out the lights as we crawled in bed, and he was recounting …
A picture of ourselves, taken by ourselves. Oxford’s 2013 Word of the Year was “selfie”—a signal …
What You Do With Your Husband’s Public Blunders
Tiny public mistakes are always made, but it’s the memorable ones that sting the most. Once the …
The eye-rolling preteen. I’ve been her. It’s predictable that somewhere between 9-16 a child will lose …
One of the things we have to guard against as spiritual leaders is letting our relationship …
Seven Lies Ministry Wives Believe
As a pastor’s wife, I find myself fighting the same old internal battles that have plagued …
Marriage: Not for the Faint of Heart (part 1)
Marriage is a temporary shadow of the eternal reality of Christ loves for the church and …
Marriage: Not for the Faint of Heart (part 2)
Marriage is NOT for the faint of heart…. Here are six more powerful marriage practices we MUST …
I’m addicted to the pithy quotes that hammer us on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram and Pinterest. …
{Flourish kicks off a new blog category called “ABC’s for Ministry Wives”. These words will represent …
Our Sorrow: Battling Bitterness
We continue Monday’s post with the third feature of ministry life that creates a unique environment …
“Sorrow has a large family.” Pain puts all humanity on equal footing. The young, old, rich, …
Church Is Fragile and Other Things I Wished I Had Known
November 06, 2013 by Shauna Pilgreen I wish I had known how fragile church can be. …
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Can we remove particular political ideology from an equation long enough to address a serious challenge …
Leadership: The Commodity of Trust
“The aim of our charge is love that issues from a pure heart and good conscience …
{Flourish kicks off a new blog category called “ABC’s for Ministry Wives”. These words will represent …
An Open Letter to Church Planting Pastors
This summer I stood in front of a room full of church planting wives and took …
Learning From a Lesbian Visitor to Your Church
Editor’s Note: One the blogs I follow the most faithfully is Kingdom People by Trevin Wax. This …
It’s a part of life. Even for the wife of a pastor. As a …
How to Respond to God’s Discipline
“Do not reject the Lord’s discipline, and don’t be upset when he corrects you. For The …
When They Talk About Your Husband
Editor’s Note from Ron Edmondson: This is a guest post by my wife Cheryl. She’s an amazing pastor’s wife. Every …
Are You An Introvert In Leadership?
True confession. Each time I am at a worship service or event at my church I …
Three Reasons Why I Won’t Cheat On My Husband
“Why won’t you cheat on me?” That was the question my husband asked. “Because I love you and …
Moonless Trust-Thank You Elisabeth Elliot
Recently I read a tweet by Beth Moore that said: “Sometimes we listen best when we …
Five Ministry Ideas I Wished I Had Learned Sooner
1- Genuinely loving and caring for people is foundational.When a church or community detects our sincere …
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Three Rules for Speaking in Public
Everyone should be able to speak in front of a group with some degree of confidence, …